Perspective

Currently, me and Wes have been having some serious conversations. About what you might say...Well when it's the right time to have baby #2. I really really want my kids close in age because that's how me and my siblings were, so I want the same. And as Aiden is starting to approach 2 we must start thinking about this soon. My max age separation is 3 years. I don't want Aiden to be 5 and us have a newborn. Plus I wouldn't be able to use my carseats if they are that far apart...and um hello even more money to dish out.

I don't want to start now by any means. I want us both to be settled in our new jobs and to enjoy some more "just Aiden" time. Because everyone knows I love me some Aiden time. After all he is a major momma's boy....and I have no earthly idea why :-) hehe. My plan is the beginning of the year for us to start trying again.

Aiden would be such an amazing brother, because he's a little helper, doesn't mind when his cousins steals his toys lol, and doesn't throw huge tantrums when he doesn't get his way (he knows mommy won't put up with that and will take away whatever he wants for the remainder of the day).

But then of course I have to bring this high exciting post back down to earth after I read one of my bloggers post. It was probably one of the most scary, real, earth shattering blogs I've read to date. Especially since this all happened to their baby #2. It made me scared and I literally balled reading it, because I can't imagine what those 7 months were like. Knowing your baby is dying and because they are so small they can't find a liver donor. And the baby was born healthy but about 2 months in find out the life changing news. Breaks my heart and kinda makes me want to hold off on trying for our baby #2 because you never know...But I highly recommend when you need a life check to read this family's blog from Jan-now and remember tissue. Never take life forgranted.

RUBY JANE'S LIFE