Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Separation

Aiden is having some serious separation issues. Ever since Brody was born Aiden never wants to sleepover at Gabby and Grande's. (He stayed over there for a week, which before the max he did was a night maybe 2.)
If we go over there and I walk out of the room he's in full panic mode searching for me. And if he sees me gathering things he immediately gathers his shoes. Like no way you're leaving me. And if you ask him if he wants to spend the night "I wanna go home with Mommy and Daddy. To Mommy and Daddy's house." I literally have to sneak out without saying goodbye.....which I HATE!!
I kinda love that he enjoys being around me, but at the same time he needs that bond broken sometimes so he learns to be independent. So in the meantime we are working on doing things alone at home and only showing mommy his accomplishments. Don't always need Mommy. Plus gives me a little breather so he's not constantly attached to my hip.
I just hope he gets over this because I know his grandparents miss him spending the night. And Mommy and Daddy especially miss our kid free nights! lol Brody is quickly approaching the spending the night age so Aiden needs to change pronto. 

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